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A Police Officer’s Story – I never understood why victims stay; now I do.

I love him…I do. But I don’t know if I can continue to live this way. When I was an officer, I could never understand why women or men would stay in the same house when they were being abused. Beware of these people at all costs!!! One red flag brings on many red flags. Your emotions will never matter. You will always be told you’re overreacting when you confront them about their abusive behaviors.

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Maybe I’ve been spending too much time with monks or watching too many films about the Dalai Lama. I’m not sure. What I’m certain of is this: There IS a non-violent “weapon” to use to combat domestic violence in our society....
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FREE ENERGY ACTIVATION TOOLKIT – mindfully recover from trauma and sociopath abuse!

“Why do I need to ACTIVATE MY ENERGY?”

Because energy is EVERYTHING, and your energy is being wasted inside a cycle of repeated trauma within your own body and mind. In the aftermath of trauma and abuse, it’s crucial to understand how and why your system is behaving “badly”, so you can correct it, end the cycle of inner abuse, and start making healthy decisions and steps toward recovery and complete healing.

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Unashamed Voices

Unashamed Voices by Paula CarrasquiloUnashamed Voices: True Stories Written by Survivors of Domestic Violence, Rape and Fraud Exposing Sociopaths in Our Midst is an anthology of 38 raw stories from across the globe intended to expose unchallenged, pathological behaviors of sociopaths and narcissists and dispel victim-blaming myths surrounding domestic violence and intimate partner abuse.

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Escaping the Boy

Escaping the Boy: My Life with a Sociopath (revisited)Escaping the Boy: My Life with a Sociopath is one woman's reflection on an abusive relationship with a narcissistic sociopath. Written at the height of the author's confusion and self-doubt, the story unravels the truth behind the mind games, manipulation, and control insidiously interwoven into relationships with sociopaths marked by co-dependency and toxicity.

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