Unashamed Voices – Survivor Story Series
Stories in this series are submitted by abuse survivors and supporters of abuse awareness, healing, and recovery.
All names and personal identifiers have been deleted and/or edited.
You may submit your story for the series by completing the Survivor Story Series Submission Form.
Before I met this monster, I was happy and having fun with my girlfriends. I had been divorced for about four years when I met him on a cruise. Then my life “went to hell in a hand basket.”read more
Hopefully, hidden behind all the chaos and confusion are lessons. But I can’t see them today. I want to save him, to save us, before it’s too late. Time seems to be running out quickly.read more
As cruel as he was, he had a knack for knowing my vulnerable spots. He knew I loved the animals more than my own life and used that to torture me. He never beat my animals in front of me. When they developed unusual ticks and started running away from him, I didn’t know what was happening. It was obvious to everyone else but me.read more
There are people in the world who want to hurt you because they need a scapegoat upon whom to unload their pain and feelings of worthlessness. Like Erika’s ex. He was very fond of weapons and kept a knife in his car and waved a samurai sword in front of her once, explaining how it could cut through bone. Much to his surprise and despite being physically small, soft spoken, and shy, Erika is one hell of a fighter when the situation calls for it. This was one of those situations…read more
This is our experience. We own everything that happened to us, and to suggest we somehow don’t have the right to speak the truth about it or characterize it as vengeful or hysterical is the same women-hating and silencing crap predatory men have been trying to get us to internalize since the beginning of time.read more
Not one of us predicted these alliances. We realize this sorority may seem strange or unnatural to some, but our sisterhood has brought us peace, comfort, mercy, closure, and the understanding that comes only from those who share your experience.read more
Part 1: Nina’s Story – A charismatic doctor and Lieutenant Colonel who violates HIPAA and military core values to seduce women? Yes.
When the police arrived, he put on the doctor/military officer charm and explained to them I’d just been in his house illegally and there was a strong possibility I may have firearms in my handbag, which I might have stolen from his home. This, of course, was ridiculous, but I had to submit to a search nonetheless.read more
He was a doctor and medicated me against my will. Before I met him, my life was going smoothly. I had a job, a house, and my car was paid off. My emotional state and spirit were also good. Sometimes I lacked in self-esteem and experienced spiritual imbalances. During these times, I’d regain balance by listening to Joel Osteen, which always revived me and gave me the power to move on. Then we met on a dating site…read more
The atrocities and stories I could share with this “old friend” would be horrific for some, but I’m sure many of you reading have or currently are experiencing the same. I believed he was a wonderful person, a great guy, and someone who would never hurt me. He was so good at maintaining a pristine reputation and playing the game. He brainwashed me; I didn’t realize to what extent until after I left.read more
I love him…I do. But I don’t know if I can continue to live this way. When I was an officer, I could never understand why women or men would stay in the same house when they were being abused. Beware of these people at all costs!!! One red flag brings on many red flags. Your emotions will never matter. You will always be told you’re overreacting when you confront them about their abusive behaviors.read more